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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP.  How do you tell him?  I think you make two things clear.

1. What you just said about confidence in him.  You trust him and his judgement, etc.
2. You only have the mental space for so much decision making.  He needs to bear the burden of some of it.  Divvy it up.  Treat it like you would household chores, with a list of responsibilities for each of you.

This can all be said in a way that makes him feel strong, not bullied.[/quote]

Are you a man?  I'm asking because I asked that question in the context of our sex life, which has not been good.  Not as frequent or satisfying.  He's no dummy and he's noticed because, as I said, I am a horrible faker (and reallly, that should be a good thing, yes?).  When I get asked point blank if I'm not turned on by him anymore, it's the one time I get good at faking real quick.  How can I say well, yes?  And here's why I think that's happening?  Believe it or not, I am not some bitch out to emasculate my husband.  I love him.  He is a great person, and I don't want to hurt him.  But there it is.  All of the things I've articulated here are killing my desire for him.  And we are too young for that shit and have way too much of the future before us to just let that dog lie.

Now I know someone will suggest couples counseling.  ;)  [/quote]

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