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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To 14:29, an emotionally healthy person doesn't shun others for expressing emotions. We're all human, and we're allowed to feel negative things and ask for support from loved ones.[/quote]

Sure we are, but humans are also "allowed" to get wet desirous vaginas or not.

Men continuously expressing their weakness is not going to get the tingles going.  [/quote]

FOR YOU. Men expressing vulnerability is not something that is a turn on FOR YOU.

I posted earlier about married to a man who is both kind and an excellent lover. He's my second husband. My first husband was emotionally unavailable and closed off. When DH and I got together, after I'd been divorced for a year, it was amazing to be with someone who actually had an emotional spectrum of any kind.

Not everyone's emotional needs in a relationship are the same. Please stop pretending that what works for you is a fix-all for everyone else in the world.[/quote]

being vulnerable and being weak are two different things[/quote]

I agree, but they are often hard to differentiate and both are likely to be categorized as "not being a man" by people on this board, specifically on this thread.[/quote]

Well I'm the one you're likely thinking about when you say "on this thread" and I want to be clear.  Being vulnerable is about being emotionally aware and tuned into the real things that are happening to you and within you - and having the ability to share those feelings with someone.  But you can do this with confidence and strength by being honest and true.

Being weak as I described and was described by the OP is about not having confidence and not being honest and not being true.  Its about seeking affirmation and relevance rather than expressing a true fear or doubt.  Its about not believing in yourself and seeking approval.  It can also be about just being a freaking wimp.

And thus, I reiterate, no pussy gets wet for weak.

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