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Reply to "My heart breaks for my kids because I didn't give them a great dad"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm one of the ones with a disengaged partner, and he had a crazy, abusive, and ultimately absent father. He himself is always depressed, in spite of taking meds. He adores the kids, but doesn't know how to father, and never feels up to it. (Pregnancy was due to birth control failure. I did not intend to have kids with him.) And the kids realized it was pointless to ask anything of him very early, certainly by the age of seven. I don't know what the case is with you, OP, if it's this dire, but if it is, you will always have that ache inside that you failed the kids, and you will always be making up for the lack of fathering. It's a long and tiring road. [/quote] That she chose to exacerbate by adding another child to the mix....[/quote]
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