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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]THEREFORE: there are higher than ever numbers of woman in their 20's who are uninterested in marriage/not getting married.

they are marrying with less frequency and at higher ages, with dc being the highest marital age of all -

thereby increasing the pool of non marrying, sexually available, dating women in their 20's to probably their highest levels ever.

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OP, don't let that discourage you. There are plenty of adorable, intelligent men of all heights and age levels out there. Here's my suggestion: say "Yes" to all sorts of men (various heights, weights, demographics and credentials) for dates  in which you actually talk and see if you're compatible -- not hookups -- for relationships. Guys who are just looking to hook up will marry elsewhere. Guys here for short runs (2-4 year career assignments) are unlikely to work out.

Most of all, don't act easy, needy or desperate. Emotionally available and mature men are looking for similar women. All relationships don't lead to marriage or lifelong marriages, either. You have got to get know whether you'll be happy together. That takes time and it's risky emotionally, so if you bring a laundry list of superficial requirements to the table, you'll go through a laundry list of superficial men.

Think about it. What qualities do you want in a life mate? In the future father of your children? That's what you should be looking for because 6-pack abs may not last forever, many men go grey or bald, and even for men who keep their hair and waistlines, sexual attraction tends to wane after a few years. Find a guy who makes you laugh, someone you can trust, someone you think you could stand to go to a DCPS Open House with -- he's the guy you should marry.[/quote]

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