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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, ignore the crazies on this forum, who are saying things were your fault or you should have known better, or whatever. You don't need to be filling your headspace with that right now. Talk with your therapist and with a good friend or two. Make plans to separate, at the very least. Look into your options with a lawyer (financial, custodial, etc.). Those are the concrete steps you can do to feel more in control right now. You are going to be ok. You are going to get through this and things will be so much better. Good luck.[/quote] No, things are not going to get better. At best, she is going to be a single mother with two small kinds and unhinged ex, worrying about their and her safety (much more so than before) and fighting court battles for considerable time.[/quote] What shitty advice pp!, YES things ARE going to get better. No to tommorow or 2 years from now but they will when she removes herself from the toxic environment. Is divorce and custody battles a cake walk, no they're not but staying in an abusive marriage is the 9th circle of hell in comparison. [/quote]
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