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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, OP, please look at this from your kids' perspective.  How do they feel having a man in the house that doesn't consider them family?  A man that would rather save his money than treat them to something fun (or nice) once in a while?  And a mom that chooses that man over them and their feelings?  Don't you think that your kids see the dynamic between you and him?  You told us your kids are smart.  I bet they know when you are struggling to make ends meet while he sits there with his hundreds of thousands of dollars not even buying the family dinner?  Give them credit.  They know EXACTLY what's going on.  they see their mom desperate for a man.... a man that couldn't care less about their mom or them...and their mom clinging to this asshole at their (and their mom's) emotional expense.

Please if not for yourself - see what it's doing to your kids.  And you said you have a daughter?  Know with absolute certainty.  Absolutely - that she will repeat your patterns.  So, in 10 or 15 or 20 years, you're going to hear her talk about some guy that is not treating her as a partner, a family member, or with respect and she'll continue to find men like that.  All because that's all she grew up with and all she knows. [/quote]

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