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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the PP who said to dump him and move into a house you can afford by yourself. I would also like to suggest that you get counseling to see why  you think it's ok that he treat you and your children like this.

(It's none of my business, but am now curious why your marriage broke up)[/quote]

From a guy's point of view, I agree 100% with this poster.

This guy views your children as your obligation and your burden.  He is not interested in establishing a family with you.  If you stay with him, your children will suffer.  I find it hard to believe that your kids don't get that he sees them as nothing more than housemates who are a financial burden on you and, therefore, a burden on his relationship with you. This guy will never marry you.  He obviously does not care about you or your children in a meaningful way or he would be willing to help you during your times of financial hardship.

This guy will not stay with you for richer or poorer, in sickness or I health.

I find it telling that his justification for not wanting to pay rent us that he could live with his parents for free.  What man in his 40s wants to live with his parents when he has the means to provide for himself?  Not the type of man you want to marry.

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