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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you can get by without his help.  You are strong.  You've shown it already by holding your life together financially as long as you have.  He does not contribute enough that you couldn't replace its loss with a little resourcefulness.  You could take in a roommate.  You could do a little extra work on the side that you could do from home, in the evenings.  You could cut back on expenses a little.

If you value his companionship, have him move out and then remain friends or even lovers.  You can get what you need from him without him living with you and taking advantage of your generosity.[/quote]

OMg, this is exactly what I was going to say.  (well, first I was going to say that this HAS to be a troll. - must be.  No one is that blind and that unaware of being so blatantly used by someone)  OP you must DO THIS NOW:

tonight - go home and say to your fiancé:  So, just like you, I decided MY house will be MY business.  So, I'm getting a roommate.  You need to move out.  I love you, I love spending time with you and we can hang out/visit as much as we both want.  but, I need to make money - just like you - from my home.  You can move back to your moms this weekend.

2.  get a roommate - you'll actually get MORE financial help from renting one of your bedrooms than you are from him.

3.  If he wants to see you - says lets go to dinner or whatever - tell him you can't afford it but if he wants to bring dinner over to the house, you will see him.

4.  Sit back and watch what happens.  if he stops seeing you - asking you out on dates - you will know that you aren't using him for money but HE is using YOU for your money.  
just because you are poorer than he, doesn't mean he can't use you for money.  Please - do this now.

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