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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, sorry to see you get e-jumped.  This topic can really bring out the crazy in some people.  If your SIL is like some of the posters in this thread, it's probably best you don't hear from her anytime soon.   [/quote]

+1[/quote]

+2.  If the situation was something like OP getting engaged and her single sister had avoided her for 3 months since hearing the news, I suspect the reactions on this thread would be very different.  [/quote]

You're comparing someone being single to someone going through infertility??? Are you crazy? Infertility is a medical condition that takes a huge emotional toll. Last time i checked, being single wasn't a medical problem. You bet the reactions would be different.[/quote]

Infertility is an elective medical problem, like a big nose. It might be interfering with your life plans but you can certainly life with it. You absolutely dont need to go to doctor for it, unless you really want to. It is actually quite similar to remaining single or having other importsnt life plans thwarted.[/quote]

People CHOOSE to remain single, they do not CHOOSE to become infertile any more than they CHOOSE to get cancer.   Some things are totally outside of your control, other things can only be controlled by you. [/quote]

People also do not choose o be ugly. Are beautiful people now supposed to hold their heads down and dress in unflattering ways so not to offend the ugly ones?

The problem with some of you infertile people here is that you had many or most things go your way all your life and now you fell it's soooo unjust that you don't get what you want. it's outside od your control, imagine that??? Like people are poor or orphans or killed in accidents as their choice? Suck it up, and learn to behave like an adult.[/quote]

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