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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am SAHM. I have a bank account of my own with a substantial amount of money put aside for whenever I need it.  My DH and I constantly fight about it, because he thinks that I should use it for some of my own expenses, such as the repairs on my car.  In any, case DH recently paid $1200 to repair my car.  He didn't fight about it with me, but I just opened my bank statement and saw that our mortgage company took the monthly mortgage payment last month from my account.  When I confronted DH about this, he said that he told me that his emergency fund was tapped out - we had some pretty expensive house repairs lately - and that I wouldn't hear of tapping into "my" emergency fund - which almost a year of DH's salary (I got this by keeping a bit for myself over the years from the money he provided for household expenses).  In any case, he said the house is jointly owned and we are both responsible for it and he simpy provided the routing number and account number to the mortgage company for an ACH withdrawal.  What should I do in this situation, as I feel he has basically stolen my money.  [/quote]

Are you for real?  YOU are the thief! "MY EMERGENCY FUND"?  No, you basically stole the money yourself by outright lying to your husband.  You told him you needed it for household expenses.  But you didn't.  You lied.  And then you secretly siphoned the money into a separate account and won't give him the password and refuse to use it to pay YOUR bills.  You are totally F-ing crazy.  I can only imagine how awful your marriage is.  Here is my advice to you if you want to save your marriage:

1) Give DH the pin and full access to the account
2) Sign up for mint.com and do a real budget - TOGETHER
3) Be open and honest about money with DH - he is your freaking husband, and he makes all the money - you make ZERO.
4) Give him lots of oral sex, because you sound like a bitch and he might leave you.[/quote]

OMG! This! Couldn't stop LOLing because this is so spot on!!![/quote]

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