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[b]I would have hidden the money better[/b].

A girlfriend once told me that, if she could, she'd give me 10k (a lot of money in the 1980s) before I got married so I could always afford to leave when things got bad. Her mother was is a horrifically abusive relationship.

I had 30k liquid, just out of sight, when I got married. And, when I was divorce with two kids, that money made a whole lot of difference in terms of our experience adjusting to life without a partner.

Any woman to leave her future at the mercy of a shifting tide is a f&cking fool.
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And how would that hidden money not be a marital asset in the event of divorce?  And how would a court look upon you trying to hide marital assets from your spouse?  Again, this OP is of the opinion that what's hers is hers and what's his is hers too.  If the family needs to tap into her emergency kitty to pay for joint expenses, then it should not be an issue.  Why should OP's DH face all of the expenses with no support or cooperation from DW?  She lives in the house, no?  [/quote]

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