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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And when is this cutoff that it would be better not to date until the child is out od the house? One kid, two kids, three kids? So any parent who is single/divorced with kids in the home should stop dating until kids leave the home?[/quote]

NP here, and I think that is exactly the best situation, at least for the kids. OP chose to have 3 children, without the benefit of being married. That was her decision. And now -- surprise -- she and "daddy" have split, amicably, of course, but still a drastic adjustment for the kids. Her priority should not be wondering whether or not she is damaged goods in the eyes of any would-be boyfriend. It would be nice if she cared more about her kids and their needs.[/quote]

Why do you people keep emphasizing her marital status. Would your judgment be different if she was a divorced mother of three?  Heck, OP's description of her ex seems more responsive than a lot of posts on DCUM about absentee ex and current husbands. [/quote]

Absolutely not, situation would be the same if she were a divorced mother of three young children. And to the ex-hubby, too, in that case. The never-married status is  relevant here because it shows a pattern of short-term, shallow thinking and putting her desires/ wants/ preferences ahead of what is (statistically) better for children.[/quote]

It can only be one extreme or the other, right? Abstinent for years or a slut who sleeps with every guy/woman (yes, a man can be a slut too, but I guess you would object to that as well). You have no clue that OP doesn't care about her kids. You're just a vapid shrew with a non-existent sex life so you feel the need to make sure others don't get it as well.[/quote]

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