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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,
If you want to salvage what you can, you have to seriously tell your wife that your marriage is in trouble, and establish ground rules. Her backing out of choosing a country is really immature and silly, but points to a rejection of your lifestyle that you have to consider. In other words, overlook her methods for a minute to actually look at her motivations - this is not a happy woman! I suggest you do something about that. Therapy? Meds for depression, if that is it for her? Eventually, a career change for you? When are you definitely coming back to a stable position in the US?

You've been putting your head in the sand for years. Do something.[/quote]

PP above who is defending you and I have to agree with this.  You have to decide if your relationship with your wife is worth salvaging and if so what you are willing to do to save it.  I totally get where you are coming from, but that is the crux of the matter.  The harpies ganging up on you are basically assuming everything is your fault when I'm guessing both of you bear some blame.  That said, your description of your wife's behavior seems beyond the pale to me.  You have to figure out why that is.  [/quote]

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