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[quote=Anonymous]My day- get up at about 6.30 am, get both children ready for the day ahead, breakfast etc. husband leaves for work at 6.30 am

7.30 am - drop children off at grandparents, drive to work

8.30 arrive in work

4.30 pm leave work, however on Thursday work until 7.30 pm

5.30pm - pick up kids from grandparents

5.45 pm - make dinner for everyone, husband arrives home

8 pm - bath children, put them to bed

8.30 - mark students work (I'm a lecturer), prepare for tomorrow, iron childrens clothes, prepare their packed lunch, feed pets.

10.30 pm - shower, bed

Weekend wake about 7am both look after the children all weekend grandparents are not interested on the weekend as they feel they do enough by taking the children to school in the morning and watching them for one hour after school before I pick them up straight after work. So they are not willing to look after the children during the weekends or any school holidays.

How do we fit our own relationship into that? Answer we don't after 20 years together (met when we where 16 & 18) we now have no relationship. There is no sex life, no talking, no laughing, no nothing. EVERYTHING revolves around work and our children. No room for anything else, I've tried to talk to my husband, I've explained the situation nothing ever changes. He sees that this is normal and that this is what it's like for all parents. I have totally withdrawn myself from him, we have not shared a bed in two years, we go months without sex and when we do it makes me feel sad as he says how much he misses me etc but I feel NOTHING. He thinks we are lucky yet I feel like I'm allowing life to pass on by. This slow chipping away of our relationship feels like our relationship is over. I don't love him, I'm not attracted to him, I feel like I'm living with a stranger. I'm so unhappy.

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