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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - I should also mention that there’s other people in the friend group who would prefer to go out but this friends husband makes a big deal about not going out to eat with other couples, even though they eat out all the time the two of them. Other people are annoyed about it and feel pressured into hosting. Another thing is they’re obsessive about environmental stuff and don’t eat meat or use single use anything. Last time I coordinated the park picnic they threw a huge fit about not wanting to use single use plastics so they wouldn’t eat the pizza the rest of us ordered/ brought their own food even though we ordered cheese pizzas without any meat for them. The food they cook is also gross and I know the other husbands get annoyed about it [/quote]

Get some new friends.

You will find a lot of friend shifting at this time in life.

I’m not saying you need to drop these friends but make some new friends. Maybe one day you will have a boyfriend or husband and be the one to host.

I used to never host. Now I host the most. I appreciate those who used to host me.

We have friends who we have hosted dozens of times in my home and of course treated. They never reciprocate. They never treat. It feels one sided. I once went to their home and we went out to eat and they made me pay. It made me feel bad because I have literally fed them at my house 30-40 times and they didn’t even feed me when I went to their home.[/quote]

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