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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most men I know 35+ who are single are delusional about what they bring to the table.  They are 4-6’s who think they deserve an 8-10 woman.  Unless they are rich it’s just not attainable for them.  When they aren’t successful they just stop trying to date.  They don’t understand what their lane is and that if they stayed in it they’d find a partner.  There truly is a lid for every pot.[/quote]

This is largely projection from walled women. You’d be surprised how men respond to basic respect and interest from their looksmatch. [/quote]

DP.

For most couples I see, the woman looks much better than the man. So no, men are not looking for their looksmatch: they are looking for women who are 8s while they are 5s or women who are 5s while they are 2s.

The problem is you have to bring more to the table if you are looking for a woman who is more beautiful than you are handsome. That 'more' can be humor, great skills in bed, money, communication skills, emotional intelligence, intellectual intelligence, prestige, etc. But average Joe feels entitled to marrying up as far as physical appearance is concerned. It's not happening.
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But here’s the thing, single women today have much more earning power. I get that many men say they don’t care about it, but the reality is that it too changes the playing field. If a woman has looks and doesn’t need your money, you need to step up you soft skills (emotionally mature) parts, and as we can see on this thread and others, many men struggle with that. [/quote]

Meh, soft skills wont do it. A woman making her own money has PLENTIFUL choices among the men of her own age group. There is no point for her going older unless it's really life changing for her [/quote]

This. High value women have zero problems. They have their pick of dozens of high-value suitors.[/quote]

As we can see with celebrities, attractive younger women go for men WAAAY above themselves in the food chain. Life changing men. Clooney. Brad Pitt, Baldwin etc.

If these women didnt come across these celebrities they would be single or with equally aged successful good looking men in the "same lane"[/quote]

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