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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman and honestly, women’s sexuality is so nuanced and complex there’s really no one single thing that turns me on.

If I’m stressed and overwhelmed, nothing at all will turn me on. I need you to step in and help without needing a long list of instructions, give me a massage afterwards, and the next day I’ll be turned on.

But then I dated a guy like that, and while he was great, he physically wasn’t my type and I couldn’t get turned on no matter how hard I tried.

Then I dated a guy who could step up and who was smoking hot, but he was a dud in bed so I stopped getting turned on.

Then, you have to be sexy, but without being too forwardly sexual. If a guy I start dating gets sexual too soon, it’s a turn off. But if he’s never sexy, I lose interest. It’s a very fine line.

But now I’m hooking up with a guy who isn’t conventionally attractive, doesn’t help me (because he’s a hookup so I’m keeping him very separate from my personal life), but sexually he does exactly what I want all the time so I am massively turned on by him.

And then it varies from man to man. One guy can be super dominant in bed and it’ll drive me wild. Another guy will be sweet and caring in bed and it’ll also drive me wild because it fits our connection; if he tried to be dominant I would be turned off. Then sometimes it’s weird, like current hookup guy is so sweet, shy, reserved, and just adorable in everyday life but is a total daddy in bed.

So basically it’s all over the place. If I could find someone hot who can read my mind, that’d be great.

The good news is when it does align, I am insanely high drive and can’t get enough, and will do literally anything. [/quote]

ITA. no wonder men are frustrated by us! [/quote]

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