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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm anti IVF and understand his desire for natural children but id dump him. You take the person as they come. I'm sure he also wants a healthy wife who can walk and talk. So he'd leave you if you became disabled, got sick, turned out to be inferile. He doesn't love you for you, you're a means to end, he feels like women are fungible.[/quote]

This. He sounds like someone who would leave you if it turned out you couldn’t carry a biologically yours pregnancy , for whatever reason. This could easily be someone who would also leave you if you couldn’t drop the baby weight, or if you got fired and couldn’t find comparable employment , or if you developed leukemia. Or lost the use of your legs in a car accident. Don’t get me wrong, these things can cause turmoil in many marriages , but for him to be like “yeah I’d leave you” is an absolute gift right now. Leave him and don’t look back. Find someone who loves you for you. [/quote]

That's horrible OP. As someone who struggled (and our infertility was "unexplained" so it could have been on either end) and then went thru IVF to have kids, it was already so hard and I can't imagine dealing with such an uncommitted jerk of a partner. He's shown you who he is. He'll bail as soon as things are outside his fairy tale.[/quote]

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