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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You never know what’s truly going on in a family. When I decided to leave DH last year, all of our friends were surprised because I always “looked so happy” and they thought we are happy together.

On the other hand, people might vent to their friends making an impression of an unhappy couple but then they go home and feel quite good in general. [/quote]

So you don't have any actual friends? Because I talk to mine about things we're going through. When I got divorced none of them were shocked. [/quote]
I have a lot of actual friends. But what’s the point of complaining to them about a decision I made 20 years ago (to marry a man that I didn’t love)? I didn’t advertise it to the world that I didn’t love him and was unhappy because of that.

For example, he isn’t my type physically, and for more than 20 years, every time when I looked at him I thought how much I don’t like what his face looks like. It’s not something I’d share, and if your friend told you something like that, you’d think that they are insane. [/quote] So youre a liar and deceiver since obviously you must have faked loving him and being attracted to him to get him to marry you, for whatever the reasons were, which you conveniently omit.  All the problems in your marriage are your own fault [/quote]
Why do you feel a need to make up a story and attack a character of your fictitious story publicly? In reality, I’ve never pretended that I love him and have never said that I do. Now that I truly love my boyfriend, I have a big trouble saying that to him because I’ve literally have never ever said these words to any man - only to my children and friends. [/quote]

So you've never told your friends that you love your husband. Which is quite a different story than what you told earlier.[/quote]
What are you talking about? I’ve never loved my husband and never told anyone that I do. [/quote]

THEN WHY WOULD YOUR FRIENDS THINK YOU WERE HAPPY TOGETHER?

You have to be a troll.[/quote]
My friends and I didn’t talk about love life with our spouses. They didn’t ask me if I love DH - we all were too busy raising kids, dealing with their health issues, working, worrying about our aging parents. They assumed that I was happy because [b]I generally look happy (my resting facial expression, people sometimes say that I’m the happiest person they get to talk to), we never fight and traveled together, went places together, I never complained, etc.[/b] [/quote]
Girl, what the hell do you call loving someone then? You sound like a sociopath.[/quote]

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