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[quote=Anonymous]I didn’t realize I wanted to be a sahm mom until I had my first. Husband totally not ok with it. 3 years later and an extreme amount of stress later we came to an agreement, and he also saw how stupid his original reaction was. Truth is there is a cost no matter which road you pick. A person who is a hard worker and does their best is going to help the family thrive whether a sahm or full time working and traveling. Having kids is A LOT. If both spouses have FT demanding jobs they will need help. The degree to which they have help will be in direct proportion to their quality of life. Anyway, lots to say about this but I would seek a spouse who was open to a real discussion and actually talking out what the variables are. Stay at home or work is just surface stuff, and even this is on a huge spectrum. It’s the underlying why’s and values that matter. [/quote]
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