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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens.  Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find.  Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.  
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Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate. [/quote]

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

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NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP. [/quote]

I make the distinction because I don't want to get herpes from a new partner "down there". You are aware that our lips and mouth contain more bacteria, viruses and infections than genitalia, right?

Oral sex is mixing liquids and exposes you to STDs even if you use condoms for PIV. How come you didn't study it in HS?
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By that logic you shouldn't kiss, either. You don't use a condom for kissing.

Or, just get an STD test. Pretty simple.[/quote]

No. Kissing could be "light" eg no biting active rubbing etc. It's less shedding vs someone going down on me when I have less control and all in a moment. The time required and amount of forces applied in the act vs kissing is different. Also genitalia's skin is more prone to catch stuff. This is why condoms and dams are recommended for sex. I'm amazed people don't have basic sex safety knowledge. [/quote]

If sex is limited to short pecks on the lips and PIV, not really worth having it. I guess that’s one way to protect yourself from STDs, just be so bad in bed nobody wants to sleep with you.

Just get an STD test. Way easier than calculating second by second during sex how likely it is you’re going to catch something. [/quote]

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