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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did her parents not make her get a job? I wouldn't just have her move out, I would make life at home unappealing until she got a job. Curfews, mandatory 6 am wake up, no good TV, no grocery requests, no spending money, flip phone, she gets 3 hots and a cot but aside from that life becomes bare-bones. [/quote] No, she is an adult. [/quote] Adults take responsibility for themselves. They don't just "choose" not to work and mooch off relatives in exchange for minimal household chores. And they certainly don't expect to invite their fiance on other people's vacations. She can be treated as an adult when she acts like an adult. [/quote]
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