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Reply to "parents here who are anti weed and psychedelics, how old are you?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not your age, it's your kids' age. With little kids it feels easy to keep things separate and secure. They're pretty oblivious. But when they get older that's a lot more difficult and it doesn't feel as comfortable even if you think they'll never know. And there's always the risk that they start snooping or find out by accident. And if they did decide to try something, they might not dose correctly, or might give it to a friend, or get sick, who knows, all kinds of bad stuff can happen. I was a child of divorce and as a teen, I knew a lot more about my parents' private lives than they thought I did. Not necessarily bad stuff, but they weren't anywhere near as discreet as they thought they were. And their weed was nowhere near as secure as they thought it was. [/quote] You can’t die from cannabis or mushrooms or LSD so I’m really not sure about the “bad stuff that can happen” if people use these substances responsibly.[/quote] You sound young and/or sheltered. As you get older you see the bad things. With alcoholism its actually death -- chronic alcoholics start dying in their 40s and 50s, which is frightening and gruesome. But with weed it is more subtle -- an inability to tolerate normal life ups and downs without it, increased anxiety when not on it, and an inability to meet their goals for themselves. Paranoia that starts to ruin your relationships. a feeling of disconnection from their children and spouse. It's not going to kill you but it slowly starts to mess up your life. I'm not a weed teetotaler and have smoked maybe 20 times in the last 25 years. But I have seen what happens to me "wake and bake" friends after 20 years and its honestly very sad. [/quote]
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