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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Ex asked for evaluation and it was free through the court.  Just got the recommendations.  Not in my favor in spite of the fact that evaluator could not observe the kids with ex as kids refused to leave car when I brought him to his house.  So now I have to tear apart the report poke holes and show the bias which is doable but will take time and energy.  Evaluator also did not put in kids preferences in report.  And did not check many things that were verifiable.  He just took ex words as truth.  Ex said he was a coach for sports and that was a total lie.  [/quote]

I’m sorry, OP.  This was a friend’s experience, too.  The evaluator took her abusive ex’s word for things and had a ridiculous double standard that was clear to anyone reading the report.  It was eye-opening and mindblowing to me.  [/quote]

Reviving this thread because my STBX just dropped $30k on the report we just got back because he’s angry that DC sees him weekly but isn’t happy to see him. The proposed plan will flip custody to supposedly repair their bond and has 3 month phases where he gets a day more each phase starting with long weekends. During the weekends the report says I will have a communications blackout and am not allowed to contact or be contacted by DC or be wherever they are. If the child complains or expresses hesitation that can lead to full custody automatically. They dismissed the existence of a protective order and major mental health issues.

Way beyond any worst case scenario my attorney prepared me for. I felt I didn’t have a choice because it was filed to strike a hearing in which my husband filed for 100% custody but I would go to that hearing if I had a time machine. Now my elderly relative is cashing out funds so I can hire my own expert to pick the report apart, but of course the conversation is now anchored by unscientific garbled nonsense.

If you are searching for info about evaluations and ended up here: do not ever, ever agree to one. Evaluators are third rate hacks who couldn’t pass the Bar or couldn’t build a clinical practice as a PP said. [/quote]

That’s why you don’t risk a war in court and try to compromise. [/quote]

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