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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once people show they are a flake, believe them. I don’t have time for that. [/quote]
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Someone flakes more than once, I never invite them to do anything where it matters if they show up.  A big party or a hang out somewhere I'm happy to be anyway?  Sure (assuming I enjoy their company).  A dinner party or anything that requires ticketing?  Nope.[/quote]

They ain't flaking on the Obamas, if you catch my drift. They are literally telling at you they don't value you and frankly don't give a s*** about you. Actions speak far louder than phony texts and chit-chat when you see them.[/quote]

+1. You don't matter to them, CLEARLY. I don't know why people continue to bend over backwards for "friends" who make it CLEAR you are a nobody to them. Spare me the anxiety crap, you're a grown man or woman. And as PP said, if this was an invite by someone extremely influential and high status, they'd NEVER in a million years flake. But you all keep befriending "friends" who do this over and over and over? Cut them out of your life and focus on people who actually value you.[/quote]

Yep. I tried to have a mom get together and ONE person showed up. The others all said they would come and bailed an hour before they were supposed to come for various lame reasons.
[b]High status mom at the school threw one the same month and you’ll be shocked to hear that every single mom in the grade was there. No one got “sick” or “wasn’t feeling it!” It was a miracle.[/b][/quote]

+1. I've seen this as well. It's honestly pathetic that people keep trying to befriend and socialize with people who treat them like a doormat. Have some dignity and self-respect. I assume the people who keep flaking on you are in a mean mom group chat mocking your repeated attempts to orbit them.[/quote]

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