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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to make it fair. Grandparent time with the Grandkids, fair. Relatively equal. See your own Mother more often if you like, separately. Too bad if it's not ideally convenient for you.[/quote]

No she doesn't. It's her husband’s job to facilitate grandparent time for his parents. She should direct them to him. [/quote]

It's actually both parents responsibility, just like everything else involving the kids. [/quote]

If it is a shared responsibility, [b]OP should do exactly as much to facilitate her in-laws relationship with her children as her husband does to facilitate her parents relationship with her children[/b].[/quote]

Exactly!

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Hogwash particularly if those adults don't know how to be polite or considerate. You don't get to tell another adult what their job is. You need to work on your own f'd up families which is why you are here. [/quote]

Op is unkind and not including her.  She had the right to be upset. [/quote]

Her mil wants to complain. When mil doesn't try to be present when she is invited, it tells us all everything we need to know. You keep pretending and continue condescending to women who write about their family issues. You never believe other women unless it is an inappropriate, rude mil. [/quote]

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