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[quote=Anonymous]I was really proud of myself when this happened to me recently. My husband's cousin also asked me if I'd lost a ton of weight. For the 35 years he's known me, I have been a size 8-10, never fluctuating more than five pounds. I think I just was wearing something particularly slimming that day. When I simply answered no, my husband exhorted me to say thank you for the "compliment." I looked at both of them and said, "You're assuming that weight loss is always someone's default desired outcome." And gave my husband more of an earful later in private. I don't know why people feel entitled to make these stupid remarks.[/quote]
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