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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have an affair. Sex is great with my AP.[/quote]

So you are very open in hidden and anonymous interactions, but are too cowardly to tell the only person whose knowledge matters, your spouse.  Who taught you that sneaking around and hiding were the hallmarks of a person worth emulating?  [/quote]

And what changes if they actually talk to their spouse about being upset at lack of sex? That’s right, nothing. The spouse makes excuses, says they’ll change and try, then it’s 3 weeks later and no still no sex. Fk that sht. Sometimes cheating is okay. Lack of intimacy in a marriage is grounds for divorce.[/quote]

I'm not with you on the cheating. But the "communication is the cure" people are naive and delusional. Often times, it's just hormones. "Communicating" isn't going to change that. Either the couple can live with the status quo or they can't. If they can't - in my opinion - divorce is the answer. [/quote]

Anyone who is not mentally ill can live without sex. Would you divorce a spouse if they couldn't have sex for 2 years because they had cancer? Would you divorce them because they were in a coma or completely paralyzed and lacking feeling  below the chest?

When people say communication is key, it means that there are mitigating circumstances that have been thoroughly discussed.

It's interesting how you wouldn't advise anyone to marry just for sex, but you would advice them to divorce just for sex. 
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Life’s too short to listen to pandering drivel from asexual, low-T folks justifying why they suppress their partners natural desires and are proud of it. Fk that sht. Without it, life is empty.[/quote]

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I am not sure why this made me LOL.

So if your romantic partner was paralyzed and incapable of having sex, your life would be empty?
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Yeah, you really nailed what PP was saying. Well done. Thanks for participating in good faith.[/quote]

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