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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the wives of men who are no longer interested in sleeping with their wives: How do you feel knowing that your husband finds other women sexually attractive but not you? How does your ego withstand the daily rejection of you as a sexual partner? When my ex did this to me, it was devastating. [/quote]
If you are fat or a bi**h, you have nothing to complain about and the blame is on you. If he finds other women attractive and not you, then one of the above is likely true regardless of how much you think you look good or have a rational and pleasant personality [/quote] I was not fat or a b, but I still couldn’t remove 20 yrs from my age to be his preferred demographic.[/quote]

So your ex was a creep and your ego was bruised as a result of his sexual rejection? 🤔 
Why would you want to have sex with someone like that? Do you not have hands and vibrators?[/quote]
For me, it’s not about orgasm. That I do better by myself anyway. It’s about the connection and intimacy and excitement that make you feel alive. Sex with a partner is (or should be) life affirming. [/quote]

Exactly my point. Why would you want to connect, feel intimate, and excited with a man who does not find you desirable because you are 20 years older when he too is 20 years older too? Why being rejected by a man who should be sexually undesirable to you affect your ego?

Sex in a QUALITY relationship is wonderful. Not sure I would go as far as calling it life affirming because it is not life affirming on its own. Quality relationships are life affirming. Sex exponentially elevates the life affirming and intimate nature of a quality romantic relationship, but it does little more than a vibrator does when the quality of the relationship is lacking.[/quote]

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