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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good job, OP. Men, never get married. [/quote]

What has he done other than get irritated?[/quote]

Staying firm on his intuitions gleaned from hard lessons learned rather than letting some woman manipulate him because she wants leverage over him. Lot of pretzel logic going on in this tread without just openly saying the truth:  she wants leverage over you, and your attention and resources and marriage is the means of attaining it.[/quote]

You need therapy as you view commitment as leverage . It’s not. It is what loving people want to give to their partners. Human love is proprietary at its core [/quote]

Blah blah. Love has nothing to do with legal arrangements, your manipulation weasel words notwithstanding. [/quote]

Love absolutely has to do with legal arrangements. You care for well being of people you love, even when you are gone. Partners sacrifice (in careers, relocations, time and money investments) to be in a relationship. Relationships take resources. OP doesn't mention any of that, but who is paying for the dates? How they split travel expenses? Would he consider getting a joint house to live with GF even if they are not married? Getting a life insurance for her as beneficiary should something happens to him after 10+ years of cohabitation? Commitment can be expressed in different ways and I named just some of these. Perhaps, his GF would be content if OP provides alternatives? Or he's not inclined to commit in any way?  So far we only know that she's his emergency contract. [/quote]

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