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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Peer group matters a lot. Obviously, there are smart kids at every university, but[b] constantly being surrounded by driven & accomplished peers breeds a natural desire to excel and succeed.[/b] And as parents, we all want our children to succeed, no matter how we individually define 'success'; for me, it's defined by how my kid sees it, and they want to aim for an elite university.[/quote]

... or a climate of stress leading to headaches and panic attacks. I am a mother in Palo Alto and we have in DD's high school what you think you're seeking for your DC. However, these "driven & accomplished" peers are relentless in their drive, and have ground down my DD's confidence as she feels she can never measure up or amount to anything because she is not giving Ted Talks, hosting podcasts with 1 million listeners or bringing the lost art of Chinese opera to American youths.

It's awful and she is seeking a college that is "chill" and "normal" where she can breathe.[/quote]

That’s so sad. What happened to childhood? Sigh.[/quote]

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