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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's interesting. I woke up to the uneven load/manchild situation I was in while I was in my 30s and my three kids were pretty young. I have family money so I was able to leave without much stress. My parents were almost happy for me. I am in a serious long distance relationship now (he has kids too) and it has been such a good situation - I have the emotional support and friendship of a partner but we have no pressure to merge families/homes/kids until they are all out of the house.

Looking back I think my exh really resented (and still does) the autonomy I had since I had my own resources. It has been 12 years since the divorce and the kids are almost all grown. He struggled for years after and his mom stepped in to keep house, etc for a while. Now he is remarried and it seems his wife (who I like) is much more suited to be a mom/wife. [/quote]

I am not saying this is true, but here is another opinion for you to consider-  
You didn’t want or need him and treated him that way.  He began immaturely acting the way he felt in the relationship, resented the fact that the woman he loved saw him as unimportant, unwanted and unworthy.  Maybe your family money created the notion that he didn’t deserve what you could give him, if you desired to love him.  What if all he wanted was to be needed by you?[/quote]
You really think wanting to be needed is an excuse for yet another man becoming a selfish, exploitative user and deliberately shirking his duties as husband and father?

Some of you will justify anything a man does.

-DP[/quote]

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