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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This post couldn't come at a better time. I'm considering the d word because have been told to "f you" a few times the last week and the b word (a boundary cross for me as a woman) about once monthly (f u b this morning) for the last 6 months. This is something I would break up with a boyfriend over when we were dating and this person didn't show these signs or do this pre-marriage. I feel so disrespected, belittled, and repulsed emotionally and physically. Do I leave? (Child.) Isn't that a sign of a low-class fighter? I point out "When you do X I feel Y" and they say I did things to cause it and started the problem and they reacted; they do it to get my attention and make me stop. Can you please help? I'm struggling.[/quote] There are no easy answers. But staying with an abuser shows your child that a) this is an acceptable way to treat their spouse and b) they don't deserve better if their spouse happens to be like this. Children tend to emulate the relationships of their parents, so an abusive relationship will be what they are unknowingly drawn to. It's dangerous for you, but dangerous for their future. [/quote]
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