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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Keep in mind that young women are also growing tired of young men. A lifetime of cheep dopamine has ruined young men. Whether its scrolling, video games or pron, their motivation to do anything other than seek cheep dopamine is very limited. Layer in vaping or weed and they can barely find the motivation to change out of their pajamas much less create a career with a liveable salary, commit to a relationship, want to support a family or even learn some interesting skill like music or foreign languages.

Older guys at least grew up in an analog era where you had hobbies that produced real interests and skills.[/quote]

Maybe learn how to spell first. My 19yo son speaks 3 languages fluently. Yes, they learn differently but it doesn't mean young men have little to offer. A young mid 20s man making an early professional salary > early 40s man with 2 kids from a prior marriage making 500K salary. [/quote]

Congrats on your son. I’m sure you’re aware he’s outstanding. That said, there’s only so many like him and women are competing for him (unless he’s under 6’ and stays earning a young professional salary too long). When they can’t find someone great like him one of the alternatives to fill the time are older guys. That way they can go on nice dates and have sex while they wait for guys like your son to reach an acceptable level of income.[/quote]

He's 6'3 and conventionally attractive,  thank you for the hidden shortness hint though. Despite being a 6'3 conventionally attractive former competitive athlete and straight A engineering student he never had a relationship.   Women in 20s don't compete for anyone. They have multiple choices among young professional men so they don't even look at 19 yo students who are not making their own money yet. I do get multiple requests from friends with daughters  to introduce him to older 23-24 yo girls though, so I have no concerns about his dating prospects once he's employed. 
That said, no, young professional women are not looking to be introduced to old divorced men. [/quote]

They may not be looking but they sure find themselves with older men a lot. 
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Statistically only 11% of mid 20s women date older men. The percentage of college student women dating much older is even lower. E.g.over 90% of younger women do not date older men. This is absolute majority so not sure what the argument is here[/quote]

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