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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s fine for you to decide you don’t want the person around bc that specific comment (even if trivial to some) is a trust breaker for you.

I had a friend for years I was very close to, we’d gone on family trips together, been there for milestones. She had a big personality and would often say little things I’d brush off as just her being unfiltered. Then one time, very casually and laughing, she made [b]a really mean comment about my dh [/b]out of the blue and laughing. That was it for me and I distanced myself.[/quote]

What did she say about him?

If someone said they thought my husband was ugly I'd shrug it off. I think he's quite good looking and that's all that matters. If they said he was stupid, I'd think they were crazy because he's not. Now, if they said they thought he was an abuser or something, that's a different ballgame. [/quote]

DP. I would personally not want to be friends with someone who thought it was funny to call my husband ugly or stupid, even if I knew those things were not true. Those aren't funny jokes. It's not that I'd be worried that it was true, it's that it's just a rude, weird thing to say. Either they actually think those things, in which case I don't want to be around someone who thinks so poorly of someone I love, or they think it's fun to insult people for no reason, in which case they just have a bad sense of humor and a bad personality. Either way, no thank you.[/quote]

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