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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Six pages, posters arguing and still no follow up answers from OP??? 🧐

Well done in Troll World. [/quote]

OP. I've been reading the responses and thinking it through.

Regarding inheritance: so, it's not about money for me. If he gave it all to my siblings, or to charity, or whatever, I wouldn't care. And actually, I don't think I would mind if he left it to a wife/girlfriend under some circumstances, like when she passed it was divided evenly among all the kids, and if she wasn't actively trying to cut him off from his kids.

But the whole thing is just so suspicious to me. She stopped working shortly after she moved in, and is now trying to keep him away from his own family. That doesn't sit well with me at all. Ultimately I want him to be happy, and I can't imagine he's very happy supporting a second family and not seeing his own family.[/quote]

But it sounds like you do care if they get married and she inherits upon his death. Despite it being his money.

Everything points to you have a serious problem with the GF that goes well beyond the issues of control you brought up. You don't seem to like her, and it doesn't sound like you ever liked her. No doubt that came through. You may have been perfectly polite, but this level of animosity always comes through other ways.

I strongly suspect there are other relevant details regarding the relationship, your father's situation, and how what you think of the GF's situation that you're not being forthcoming about.

Maybe it isn't about the money itself, but your attitude toward the money suggests other issues at play.[/quote]

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