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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you have children, OP? You don't sound mentally fit for it. What kind of childhood will she have with you being hysterical all the time. Many marriages end in divorce. How will you cope with that? Your child will be gone half the time.[/quote] Unfortunately this. People with multiple traumas are irreparably changed. All the therapy in the world will never repair that. Taking that out on a child is inexcusable. Not everyone is meant to be a parent.[/quote] It's astounding what kind of falsehoods and garbage people will post as "fact". You clearly don't know how many literally millions of people every day who've been through multiple traumas present as "normal" and are actually sane even though every day may be a struggle to stay that way. But they actually are and work like crazy to protect their kids and loved ones. Calling being vigilant and protective of one's child "taking that out on a child" is twisted and false. And whether you really mean it or not you are clearly going through your own issues and I feel for any children in your life that you gaslight and tell them that they're imagining things when they are trying to trust their gut in a rational way.[/quote]
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