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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Assume she is paying for everything but I would think they will at least cover group meals - I highly doubt they would ask for money for that. I hope that if she does end up having to pay for things it isn't too much of a financial challenge.

I think most hostess gifts are pointless and stupid but many disagree with me so probably best to err on the side of caution and bring one. She should ask her boyfriend, though most likely he is clueless and doesn't know.

What is the sleeping arrangement?[/quote]

She will have her own bedroom. Both my husband and I and from what I know his parents are more comfortable with it being this way.[/quote]

Even with her own bedroom, there could still be situations for the boy to try to pressure her into  s*x during this trip! You need to have “the talk” with her ahead of time.  Its especially important for her to understand things, including birth control, how to use it, and of course consent.[/quote]

FFS if they wanted to have sex;they’ve already done it!!

I went skiing with my BF’s family my sophomore year and they were more wealthy than mine.  I brought a bottle of nice champagne for Christmas and a box of chocolates for his mom.  They paid for everything, literally everything - even my ski rentals.  They even loaned me a nicer ski outfit than I had. Mine was a hand me down when I got it a few years prior.  They loaned me his sister’s last year’s outfit because she insisted on having a current one every season and we were about the same size.

We were already having sex at college - a lot of sex, like every night.  So we had zero need to have sex in a house with his family.  My parents and his had the same “not in my house mentality” and seemed to think we were both virgins.  I let them think whatever.  Don’t be naive to what is really happening.

Oh, and it was such a great trip!  To bad that BF became an a$$hole about supporting my career aspirations.[/quote]

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