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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"He convinced me to move in with him. I didn’t really want too since we were dating and my parents didn’t want me to either yet, even though they like him and think I should stay, but I chose to."

So he wants to live with you? Move out and explain that you think it was a mistake to live together before marriage.[/quote]

The advice here is shockingly bad. Refusing to live together before marriage is a huge red flag. What do you need to hide?

[b]Men don't particularly want to live with together, [/b] but it's a way to do a trial run before marriage.[/quote]

Uh what? Men love to shack up. And it’s not remotely an indication they are marriage-minded. [/quote]

For financial reasons, yes. But otherwise it is just a headache compared to maintaining separate spaces.[/quote]

That is a minority view. [/quote]

It's really not. If money wasn't an issue, guys would absolutely prefer to keep separate living spaces. The only other reason they put up with it is to see it someone is OK to live with. Plenty of people can put up a fascade that doesn't come down until you've living together for a while and have been through some rough times.[/quote]

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