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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Yesterday I met a 45 year old defense contractor. I think this was probably the first time I wasn’t repulsed by a man I met from the apps. First he looked so much cuter than his photos. And he was smart!! And tall! We had a nerdy conversation about aviation and he is also apparently a pilot, which is hot!

We talked for 2 hours and it was apparent the attraction is mutual. He gave me a quick hug goodbye.

Lots of + but here’s the red flags:

[b]- he spoke of his ex wife who apparently has a personality disorder. [/b]Which…casting your ex wife as the problem isn’t great!
- teenage daughters. He seems like an invoked dad which is cute but if this got serious, dealing with teenage girls + crazy ex wife would be a lot to take on! 🫠[/quote]

People with personality disorders often end up with people with PD. borderline and narcissistic is a common pairing [/quote]

This is accurate af. Lots of co-dependent people stay in relationships with mentally unwell people, too.

Mentioning your ex on a first date is kinda gauche. Mentioning their mental health is a massive red flag. Like, dealbreakingly large.[/quote]

Empaths can also be drawn to mentally unwell people. It's not necessary a red flag.[/quote]

Empath = borderline personality disorder traits. [/quote]

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