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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel its trading one set of problems with another and unless abuse is involved, many might think its not worth it.Would love to hear from women who left and were not able to afford the same lifestyle but are much happier? Anyone? 
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I'm ok being poor; that's actually not a big deal. I'm not ok having my child away from me from half the time after everything I sacrificed in my career and in my personal life to raise them while DH was a completely disengaged parent and built a huge career and maintained hobbies and a social life at my expense. And now that the most physically demanding parts of caregiving are over and DC is "fun", DH gets to swoop in and enjoy the easy part of their childhood in spite of not having put the work in to raise them and being the one who blew up their marriage.

So yeah, I think most people are held back less by finances than the reality of shared custody after they've been the primary parent. [/quote]

I agree-shared custody is a dealbreaker, and add to it the tears in their eyes and other issues they go through with divorce-its pretty painful. There have been posters that regretted splitting because of the "poor" lifestyle for the kids.[/quote]

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