Reply to Child is severely left out

Forum Index » Tweens and Teens

Reply to "Child is severely left out "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The best thing you can do is be proactive about supporting new friendships. Drive DD and friend of her choice to a fun activity, host hangouts etc.[/quote]

The friend who has been excluding her got the rest of my DD’s friends on her side. It used to be only 1 person, but it seems the whole group is now excluding her. They make it very obvious as well. [/quote]
 
Your certainty that you have a full picture of what is going on is naive.  You are hearing one version from a biased participant.  No one is entitled to be invited to everything in an undefined group of friends.  Friends evolve over time and perhaps some reflection about why your daughter isn't getting invited is in order.  [/quote]

Op’s daughter asked if the other girl had a problem with her. The daughter said no, and continued to exclude Op’s daughter with no explanation. And stop with “no one is entitled to be invited to everything” This is a friend group for gosh sake! Op said this has been a friend group since elementary school. Would you not feel horrible if a group of friends suddenly left you out knowingly after years of close friendship?[/quote]

I really feel otherwise here.  It seems clear her daughter has been traumatized by this.  And the other girl is the one who was the aggressor here.  Can’t you see how OP’s daughter has been bullied here?

Definitely get the school involved.[/quote]

To complain about what? That the other girls didn’t invite her to the movie with the group? Stop with the “aggressor” nonsense. The OPs daughter was not bullied, she simply does not fit with that group of friends for whatever reasons, likely from both sides.

OPs daughter should move on and find new activities and friends.[/quote]

Come on now.  The ostentatious movie invite for everyone but one in the group is text book relational aggression/bullying.

But otherwise I agree.  OP's daughter needs to ditch these losers and there is nothing the school can or will do because it's not physical or identity based aggression.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics