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Reply to "Feeling like I'm the spouse who is always "on" and keeping things in order"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP someone wrote a book for this. It's called Fair Play. The book has lots of flaws, but it could give you some ideas. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/44071899-fair-play?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=VmjafEz0oW&rank=1 [/quote] I'm one of the people on this thread and I promise you that if your spouse is not able to be on and keep things in order, they are not going to participate effectively in Fair Play. It was very illuminating to get the book out, propose doing it with my spouse, hear him enthusiastically say he would read it, then weeks later hear him say "could you just summarize it for me", then hear him say "could you just divide up the tasks for me". So basically he wanted me to do Fair Play for him. Fair Play to me was more of a litmus test and a paradox than anything else. If you have a spouse who is willing to do the work of Fair Play, you don't need it and can put that energy into just...doing the work. [/quote]
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