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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP all this is really splitting hairs. Your DH spent more than $500 one night that you know of, going to a nude club and getting personal services that were sexual or orgasm-adjacent. 
Do you think this is a way you want your spouse to act? 
It may not be his virgin nudie club visit.
[b]Either do a look the other way wife act or get a lawyer.[/b]
But a guy like this may not be planning on celebrating a 25th anniversary with you. [/quote]

These are truly the choices. Pick one, OP. [/quote]

I would leave him, personally, because this is an absurd use of $500 to me, but I think [b]it's also reasonable to expect that if she's expected to look the other way, he's expected to be somewhat more discreet about his activities.[/b] I guess a "lap dance" in a city several states away is fairly discreet, but paying for it with his personal Venmo, in a way his wife found without too much effort, is not. [/quote]

She went through his phone. You can't accuse him of having a problem with discretion because she "found [it] without too much effort" by going through his phone. [/quote]

She didn't say she went through his phone. She said she had proof of payment and mentioned Venmo. Paying a stripper via Venmo is incredibly indiscreet.[/quote]

What are you on about -- she specifically admitted she went through his phone. [/quote]

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