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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, here.

1. I stand corrected. I typed quickly and upset and likely had other grammatical errors.
2. We have an ongoing issue with DC dragging out dinner time by eating super slow and not eating certain vegatables. Both parents correct this behavior and have discussed the need to do so.
3. He has already taken the nuclear option. Has told me I am worthless, has told me that I am riding his coattails, etc.
4. I have an advanced degree. He does not. However, my career required frequent travel overseas AND he could not handle caring for our DC. He would explode often when I couldn’t control the crying when DC was a baby to the point I never left him alone with DC until 2 1/2. 
5. I gave up my amazing globetrotting career flat out because he could not handle caring for DC while I was traveling. Grandmas came for the first few trips but it was apparent he was not capable so we both decided that I quit and pivot to some simple local job, which of course was not my specialty and paid much less.
6. I reinvented myself, created mew career but now am impacted by the current administration so take home funds are near nothing right now. We do have excellent health insurance through me and I do 70%+  of the home management and caretaking (always have done most of it regardless of how much I work and bring in)
7. I get that it was rude to interrupt but we both do it to correct DC. Will work on not doing it again to keep the peace for him and DC.
8. My mind is seeking excuses and reasons to stay but my heart knows this man doesn’t care about me. He has said disparaging things to me in front of the kids. Had a brief affair with younger coworker that I discovered. Older DC despises him and flat out told me she wants nothing to do with him when she moves out.
9. Nothing else to do but get my ducks in a row and prepare to leave him once some things are in place and younger DC is a bit older.
10. One can treat their spouses however they wish but I certainly will not be applauding my husband for working. He would do it regardless if he has a family to support or not because he is obsesed with power and money.[/quote]

Ma’am divorce 
Stop w the excuses. Mr. husband is not going to change [/quote]

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