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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I’m a married man and will offer my perspective here.

I have consumed lots of pornography in life and I am convinced that[b] it is a scourge in society, has warped male and female expectations about sex, and negatively impacted an entire generation of people since porn became widely available about 25 years ago.

First, let’s be frank about what is happening in most porn shoots — extremely vulnerable people who come from backgrounds where they were in most instances abused by other people are doing things with thier bodies that will live on the internet forever for a pittance of money — all for the sexual gratification of the person watching porn and so that a select few people at the top can make money off the entire enterprise.   It’s deranged and sickening when you think about it.   The people who perform in porn almost universally come from broken homes, and have drug or other interpersonal issues.  Would you seriously want your son or daughter doing porn?  We all know the answer to the question.  If we truly care about vulnerable members of society, then we should not be doing things which aid in their exploitation[/b].   
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1. Not everyone watches porn
2. Agree with this poster.  The vast majority of those participating would rather be doing something else to earn that amount of money if they could, or are being trafficked in some way
3. Very concerned for the future - kids see things much earlier and much more varied than dad's magazines of 50 years ago, and think it's normal, when it's not.  They don't know what normal is, what intimacy is, only warped views of what they see online[/quote]

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