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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The rude person here is the one who asked you about it IMO.  It is rude to talk about a party with someone who wasn’t there.

I am a dinner party person and we can’t invite all our friends all the time.  We rotate so sometimes one person is invited and another time they are not.  But I don’t like big parties and I host a lot, everyone gets an invite every couple of months.  My table isn’t very big, for one!  And at a big party you don’t really get to talk to everyone, you are too busy orchestrating and making sure the napkins don’t run out or whatever.

I don’t recall who introduced who to who honestly.  Seems like bean counting.[/quote]

Me again…also I put a lot of thought into my dinner parties and who attends which ones.  I definitely wouldn’t keep the groups the same all the time!  That isn’t how it’s supposed to be done.  Couple A and B might be friends, but I’d invite couple A and C and then B and D to future parties together if I thought they would enjoy each other.  You are supposed to mix up the invite list, not have the same 2-3 couples each time.  That’s boring and sort of rude in and of itself.  At least according to my grandmother who was incredibly nitpicky about these details….[/quote]

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