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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The rude person here is the one who asked you about it IMO.  It is rude to talk about a party with someone who wasn’t there.

I am a dinner party person and we can’t invite all our friends all the time.  We rotate so sometimes one person is invited and another time they are not.  But I don’t like big parties and I host a lot, everyone gets an invite every couple of months.  My table isn’t very big, for one!  And at a big party you don’t really get to talk to everyone, you are too busy orchestrating and making sure the napkins don’t run out or whatever.

I don’t recall who introduced who to who honestly.  Seems like bean counting.[/quote]

I had the same issue. We have a small house. So, I let a friend know I was rotating invitations around. Eventually, everyone would get invited--but not all at once. [/quote]

It’s nice of you to inform them. If someone got upset because I didn’t inform them, I’d let them be upset. People self-select into being part of the easy-going friend group through their natural actions.[/quote]

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