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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s not going to give up 50:50, too much $$ and pride at stake.  Just offer to take the child more often when he travels. It may seem unfair but it’s reality.  Alternatively find him a local babysitter that you like.  [/quote]

She's not going to give 50-50 out of spite, pride and money.  Why should he not get his kids equally?  OP can switch weeks.  He should not lose time due to work.  She benefits from his income as do the kids.  If he takes a 30% pay cut, is she ok with that reduction as it impacts her?[/quote]

OP catching back up on this thread.

If I could never see him again and could get zero child support but guaranteed that my DC wouldn’t have to see him unless DC wanted to, I would’ve very happy with that arrangement.

Also a 30% pay cut would not impact me nor child support. Child support is set at a certain amount and not tired to income unless he sought modification and even if he did, 70% of a bajillion dollars is still a lot of money. The only person who thinks this is about money is exDH.[/quote]

You sound horrible and the real issue isn’t travel but to spite him and never let him see the kids again.  Decline child support.  Yes if his income goes down, he can request a modification.  This sounds made up.

Offer to waive child support for full custody.  Get remarried and have them adopt.  Problem solved.  [/quote]

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