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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly is it she wants you to do that you're not doing for your own kids?[/quote]

Her kids/grandkids are all 30/60/90-minute drives away, less than half as far as mine.  We go to every possible event with them.  Ratio of interaction is like 20:1 vs. mine who are twice as far away or more.[/quote]
Why are you going to all those events for children that are not yours? She can go to those events and you should prioritize spending more time with your family.[/quote]

OP here.  This could be very helpful.  [b]I don’t like just taking off and abandoning her, so going in my family’s direction exactly when she’s going in her’s could be a win-win.[/b]  Of course if there’s something really special she wants me to go to then it would be not so great to gin up a trip of my own.  I’m not thinking she’ll be thrilled about this symmetry though.[/quote]

God, you are so very selfish.

So, you can only feel comfortable seeing your own kids when your girlfriend has decided to see hers, so that you aren't ever "abandoning" the girlfriend for the short time it takes to see your own family?

Here's the thing: your kids have seen that you prioritize this woman and her children over them.  It isn't a secret. [/quote]

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